Hello girls,
I'm having a bit of a problem, and I would like to have your advise. Since a couple of weeks my boyfriend and I run into a specific problem when making love.
We have been having sex since almost a year now, and until recently never encountered any significant problems. But lately, during intercourse, it happens that "I completely dry up inside". Without even a warning, I don't know why it happens, I fail to 'fabricate' enough of my natural lubrication fluids. It's not because I'm no longer in the mood -quite the contrary- or stressed, scared or insecure, ... I just suddenly "disfunction"; my body sort of gives up on me and can no longer keep up with my desires.
Off course, in the past, this sort of problem has happened on occasion, but it seems to become a routinized problem lately which may start to interfere with my lovelife... It's not that I'm not horny enough, or that my boyfriend neglects foreplay or underachieves in bed, Somehow, this just happens. This seems to happen more and more often in the last couple of weeks.
My boyfriend suggests on using a lubricant, but I've never used this before and I would like to know how prevelant this problem is amongst women of my age (22). Have any of you ever encountered problems like this, if yes, do I really need a lubricant or can there be an obvious reason for this problem, which I can then solve without the use of a lubricant?
Please advise!
