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1st. She fucked my brother. Crazy bitch. Literally. She's been institutionalized several times.
2nd. Distance (I moved to the east coast), met another girl, wasn't all that into her anyway.
3rd. Wanted to move back to the west coast. She wouldn't leave her family. Would have married that girl, but couldn't stay in the east. Later married a guy from New York and moved there with him. Has some kids now.
4th. Don't really know. Just drifted apart, started fucking other people, (both of us) even while fucking each other. She stalked me a couple times. Showed up on my doorstep begging me to take her back on my first night with...
5th. Just wasn't into it, didn't love her. The sex was FANTASTIC though and the chemistry kept it going for about a year longer than it should have. Near the end I cheated on her. Only time I've done that.
6th. Only one fight in almost 5 years. Would have been happy to stay with her too, but she was afraid of commitment. She couldn't manage to be responsible for more than herself. Big problem, since I want kids someday. Couldn't have been a family, even though she would have been a great mother. Still love her in a way, 5 years later. If she changed her mind I'd go back.
7th. German girl. She went back to Germany after we'd been dating for about 4 months. I told her I wasn't going to wait around all summer, not dating, for her to come back. This was kinda a rebound from #6.
8th. Rebound #2. Cool girl, but she had father issues, needed some therapy. told her to get back to me when she was fixed. Never heard back.
9th. JA girl. She was cool too. Very athletic. We had a great time together, but in the end wanted different things in a relationship. I need a relationship to be comfortable and stable, she needed it to be about challenge and change. She had weird issue with being Japanese that didn't make sense to me.
10th. Guess this was a relationship. We were fuck buddies for about a year. Kinda dated too. She wan't honest with me. lied about stuff all the time. She also didn't want a family and I do. But I let it go because once again, the sex was out of this world. She stalked me a bit too. Still sends me weird obsesive e-mails from time to time. Cut it off because I was getting increasingly uncomfortable eith her dishonesty and I met...
11th. Current relationship that's winding down. Great girl, but a lot younger than me. She didn't have much experience in relationships (obviously I have) and didn't know how to do it right. My efforts at teaching all failed. Peobably because of her emotional issues (no self confidence, insecurity, hyper-sensitivity, all in portions much more than normal, even for her age). If she gets some therapy she might get her life straightened out. I hope so, she's fantastic.
Most of these lasted 1-2 years. Lots of random dating and stuff that lasted less than 3 months left out.
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