You might want to find a support group or something for people who are grieving. I agree with Bloodslick that you should spend as much time with her as possible. Let her know you love her, let her tell you whatever she needs to say. It'll be good for both of you.
I lost my grandfather and my younger brother in the past year, and it's hard to deal with, but you also need to let yourself just be sad. Surround yourself with supportive friends, take care of yourself (eat well, get rest, get exercise), and don't hold things in. If you don't like to talk about it, maybe keep a journal or something just to have an outlet. Be sure you're not clinically depressed.
PM me if you want to talk more, hon. It sucks but you'll get through it.
__________________
"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
|