First: That's an estimate. Warren Zevon held on for a year when doctors gave him three months. People are stronger than doctors give them credit for being.
Second: Spend any time that you can with her. If you can't, then try to talk on the phone. Write a letter. Don't let the time just go by, or you will forever kick yourself.
Third: Realize that this is part of life. Everything ends. Try to do for your grandmother what you want people to do for you when your life ends.
Good luck.
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