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I think Lurkette expressed very well much of what I think too. I find that on a night out when I'm not "hunting" for anything long term I tend to go for the bad boys. I love adventure, causing trouble, going against the stream, etc. BUT if anything every happened to hubby (God forbid) and I were looking for a man to settle down with my perspective on the "right guy" would have changed a lot since prior to marriage. NOW I would definately look for the well established provider since I have a daughter and she is my jewel and priority. I do spoil her though I try not to. A provider would give me the ability to care for her more in the way I desire. Also a "well established" guy who isn't still living with his parents or something like that would indicate to me one who isn't the type to quit his job on a whim. I've gone through enough lean times to know I wouldn't want a flighty guy.
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