I'm going to be a music teacher, and in my instrumental methods class we talked about this. Here's a wrap up.
"You MUST have a life outside of school, if you don't, then how does that song go, 'If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with'? I have seen careers destroyed by this. We had one student teacher that a choice had to be made, 'You have to quit student teaching, or she will have to quit band.' If you don't get married, and school is your entire life, things like this WILL happen. It is human nature."
Wait until they graduate to persue them. Don't let someone come between you and a pay check. He/she can wait.
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