Honey, you're hanging out with the wrong people. The actions of drunk strangers of indeterminate mental and emotional stability should never be taken personally. You can't let yourself get so emotionally invested in people you don't really know. I'm sorry this girl hurt you - she sounds like a twit. If you're really interested in relationships and not in random hooking-up, try looking for people who share your interests and values, rather than pinning all your hopes on people you meet at parties. Join interest clubs, volunteer organizations, take classes, whatever. You need to know that all women aren't like this, whatever it might seem like right now, and that as painful as this was for you, it had nothing to do with you and everything to do with this girl's immaturity and thoughtlessness.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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