Since my upbringing was strict and Catholic, masturbation never occurred to me. After marriage we had sex often enough and I came often enough (not every time but lots) that it wasn't an issue.
Near the end of my marriage I started having a hard time reaching orgasm. It was taking for-@#$$#@*& -ever when we would have sex. I thought it was about my lack of interest in my husband.
When I met Art we had lots and lots of sex but coming was draining to us both because it just took me so long. It was sometimes embarrassing how long it took but Art was a terrific and patient lover. I finally said I thought a vibrator would be just the thing and it certainly has been...........multiple, multiple and multiple.......for me it's the way to go. Sex can take a long time or short time it doesn't matter. It's all good.
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