that fathers do not get a say in this decision is the reason i have been unable to remain pro-choice. If the sex was consensual...and that's a important if, i can't say the father doesn't have a say. And i can't think of a way of letting two people make decisions on the issue with out possibily infringing on the rights of one of those parties.
But that's all very abstract, and somewhat irrelevant to you, i would guess. I'm sorry that this situation has gotten to the point that it has-i hope you find peace with what's happened. best of luck.
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