jay-g

I used to think that abortions were "up to the woman" and its her decision. Now that I am older, I am against abortion. I guess i see it as the ultimate act of selfishness. Its like you have sex because it feels good and fun for you. Who is that act for? Its for the girl or the guy, meaning yourself. Then once the girl gets pregnant, one or the other wants to terminate the pregnancy, because someones not ready. Not only did you have sex for yourself, now you are killing a innocent baby's whole life and future because you just dont want to deal with what comes along with the baby. I mean i understand, when you are young sex is always on the mind. The last thing you want is to be tied down and cheated out of your youth. People should think about more than "in the moment, getting off" and have the notion that "if" somethings happens, they might have to take a life. I would rather have no sex, over having alot of sex but then having to kill a child because we were irresponsible. When it comes down to it, it is the womans choice. All the guy gets, is his say so and opinion but other than that, you cant control her or tell her what to do. To me its a shitty concept, but thats life.(sorry i get all wound up and start ranting on this topic) but Zorvox....I think you should try and get over this one. She isnt being nice or compassionate towards you and you probably deserve better.