As far I'm concerned, when having an abortion, the descision should involve both the male and female. But if the female whom broke up with the male and decide to have an abortion without any disccussion with the male, then why the fuck should he get involved? After all, it was HER that didn't want him to get involved in the first place?
I know what you're trying to do Zorvox, I would have done the same..
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Originally posted by irateplatypus
i'm baffled why many women assume that the man has no say when they want an abortion, yet often demand money/marriage/support when they do want to have the child.
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Has it occurred to you that women are the one who has to bear the child? And you're being biased, I don't think you've read or heard any stories of men and women discussing the notion of abortion when she gets pregeant. Some may think that the men will try to change her mind, those are the kind of stories that winds up on talk shows. When women are havingi a baby, it's quite stressful to be able to handle it all on your own. Which is why they ask for support from the man who knocked her up because after all, it is his responibility. Sex involves responibility. I don't know how it feels when you got a big baby comin out of the "no no" area. I think it would very much feel like somebody stepping on my balls and twisting it...