Well, i've just come out of something, which lasted two months, but love / passion can't be judged by time and I tell you man.. it was hell, and it still is I had to confront two people tonight (my ex who is having an abortion today in like 13 hours - and my mate who is there to support her I got fucked over etc yeah) and all I can say is.. be strong man, I told them that I can't control them and they are entitled to do what they want...
Give her time space, show her that you can be there for her as a friend or more, just let her know how you feel - because she is entitled to that much - but I guess it wouldn't help perhaps meeting some other girls as other possibilites...
It's really up to you, how much do you like this girl etc, but time wasting is just wrong - but being hurt, takes time to get over it etc, just comfort her and she'll come around
