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You could always try brutal honesty: Sit her down and explain that you have no feelings like that for her, you are flattered she thinks of you like that, but that there is no chance for a relationship and you won't change your mind.
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Ok, I've done this talk at least 4 times, and the girl kept on going after me every time but once. I think that I provided some kind of special challenge that they wanted to break or something. I ended up doing things to offend them out of necessity. People can be very selective with their hearing, or simply don't care that they're not wanted. "What you don't want me? Oh well, that doesn't mean I can't keep up with this old habit"... something like that, once persuit becomes a habit it is hard to break, even when it is a lost cause.