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If you tell a girl her BF is a loser, the concept that you are better than him is implied.
Trust me when I say that trying to convince anyone the person they're dating is not worth it is bad news.
I had a very good friend who I thought was making a bad decision about getting married to a girl I felt wasn't right for him. I asked him many times how certain he was about the wedding, and once they sent out the invitations I let it drop.
Six months after the wedding she filed for divorce. I heard about it third hand because he hasn't talked to me in more than five years. And this is one of my male friends. I can't imagine the reaction If I had been a womand trying to convince him to date me.
Bottom line -- if you want to be in the picture, let her do the drawing. Don't try to pencil yourself in.
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