There have been long, long stretches in the past where I haven't felt like having sex at all, really. I was still interested in my girlfriends at the time. I just wasn't having that carnal craving. Like em1014's example, it led my girlfriends to believe that I wasn't interested and that something was wrong.
The thing is, I just wasn't craving sex all of the time. I had sex during those times, and it was good, but I wasn't actively seeking it. I was still very affectionate and touchy feely and lovey with my girlfriends.
Don't let a lack of hormonal activity fuck the relationship up in your mind.
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