I don't think that a person would be required to tell you their past history unless you were truly getting serious. Until that point, they were not lying to you. If they believe they are one sex, then they are.
Now, I am not saying that I would definitely continue in a relationship, but I would explore it and give the person the benefit of the doubt. I think that there are many people in the world, and not all of them are the same as me and my tidy little categories. I think there are people whose minds and psyche are one way, and their body is another.
One more thing, gay men swear that they have the best orgasms, because they have so much practice with the same equipment, and they understand it better than women. Well, a sex-changed person should give you the best of both worlds; experience of a guy, and female parts to play with. Hmm, could be interesting.
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