My SO's are just friends to the second power...
Every boyfriend I've had has been my friend first...and foremost. I look for the same qualities--honesty, a good sense of humour, sincerity, and a winning personality. True, I like my SO's to be attractive, but its not a major issue.
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"With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
-Desiderata
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