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Honestly... if the girl has never had a relationship before, and has always been very independant- the dating you can become a VERY scary thing, and she has every right to feel confused. I used to be exactly like her- I turned down plenty of possible relationships, because I was so independant, not to mention very scared of getting serious and getting hurt. Be supportive of her, this whole "fuck.. am i getting played" stuff is crap. She's not playing you. Sounds like she is interested in you, but she is not sure if she wants to invest everything it takes to "have a BF". I wish you and her both luck.
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