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Holo: the kind of person who needs conflict to feel secure typically has an issue commonly known as a borderline personality. This is often the result of a childhood in a family fraught with conflict and arguments. The problem can be helped and eventually resolved, but not without some direct addressing of the issues and typically counseling. It's a very disfunctional and difficult life to lead. The turd in the punchbowl here is that it's not a pretty process, and without cooperation from her, it won't ever fly.
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