I personally identify as a submissive, though I am not completely opposed to topping. I have made an attempt at a D/s relationship, but unfortunately, due to conflicting interests/schedules, it eventually dissolved. Unfortunately, the guy who was my Dom was a bit "off" psychologically, and I didn't realize it until after the relationship had ended. I haven't heard from him for a while. Not sure I would want to. Having been blinded by my adoration for him, I didn't realize just how "off" he was. He was quite far out there.
There was a point where I came very close to being in another D/s relationship with an older man (much older), but I suppose life had other plans. My current relationship does not have a strong D/s element to it as of yet, but we have talked about exploring with one another sometime in the near future.
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Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer.
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