This frequent fighting at least indicates a level of passion in the relationship which is a good thing. However you absolutely must get to the bottom of it through a serious talk about what the underlying issues are. She may deny something is a problem (and you might deny something is a problem), but to really work you have to be honest with yourself to know what is bothering you. If you are unable to do it on your own, seek relationship counseling. Sometimes counselers can tell us how to talk to each other which is the key to a good relationship (or at least one of the keys).
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