I think that you should discuss all your feelings about this. Tell her that she should trust you with her body. Say that if, after she relaxes when you actually can finally try it, she doesn't like it after the first time that you won't ever bring it up. Try showing her all your feelings, and most of all, ask her point blank WHY she's so closedminded and won't try it. There could be something in her past lurking that could make her feel uncomfortable to try something like this...
I dunno if that helped.
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