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Good for you. Fuck the people who give you shit about your virginity. I applaud you for your choice to abstain, based on a lack of true love- how admirable! How many people can say they want to wait just because they don't feel right having random sex?
On the other side of the coin, there are those of us who see sex as a wonderful part of our lives, and (without being crazy as in the girl who goes depressed after 2 dry days) we embrace our own sexuality by expressing it with another. We enjoy sex. Just because it's random doesn't necessarily mean it's dirty, because we are all sexual creatures and different people act out that facet of our personalities in a different way- some abstain and wait for love, and some feel that a sex with different people is perfectly fine, because we all do what makes us happy.
It sounds like you have nothing but the absolute worst possible scenarios of people you associate with... they all seem to be at the very worst end of the spectrum. Just be safe, and do what you want to do. Don't let those assholes get you down, you sound like you've got a great life ahead of you. Best of luck.
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