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jbrooks - I don't think he (Ratbastid) was talking to you...
I, too, have noticed that JesusPimp seems to be a little bitter lately (see thread titled "at what age do girls stop flaking out and get their shit together?" Ouch!) I'll let Ratbastid speak for what he meant by his own terse reply.
It's totally natural for you to be bitter, angry, sad, depressed, etc. at this point. A month is not long, and you were together for a while. The way to get your mind off her is to get your mind off her. Right now, thinking about her is like tonguing the tear on the roof of your mouth, or picking at a scab. You know you probably shouldn't, but somehow it feels good to hurt for some reason. Thinking about her may be unpleasant, but maybe you need to, at least for a while, in order to get past this. Get it out of your system. Otherwise, go out of your way to do things that take your mind off her. Do things that require you to be focused on something else. Enlist a buddy in making sure you get out regularly. Do meet new people. Don't go sleeping around unless it's clear that the women you're using know they're being used and don't mind.
Chances are she's going to be on your mind at least sometimes for a while yet. But keep yourself busy and engaged in other things and eventually it'll fade.
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