You two have been lying to each other for a long time. It's NOT just her. It's NEVER just one person in a relationship. Maybe you've been lying about how much you like being the noble victim?
There are two possibilities about the things she said a few weeks back. Either she was angry and didn't mean them, or it was the beginning of her telling the truth.
Once the truth gets ALL THE WAY TOLD, by BOTH of you, then something might be possible in your relationship. But right now all that's possible is pain and confusion.
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