I found that once I stopped thinking about "I'm getting laid", tuned out the moaning, focused on mutual and in-sync breathing, and focused on "being" together....I lasted 10x longer. Its too easy to get too excited.
Now, my probelm is, I can go for 3-4 hours and that's too long for most. WE get too sore.
So, don't think of gross things. Just shift what you're focusing on. Firing one off before hand is always a big help.
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