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Some of the problem I think is the stress you are under. This can have large effect on how you are feeling in the relationship. You need to talk to her and discuss sex. Make it a learning experience. There is always something you can do differently. It is so easy to get in a rut and hard to get out of unless you work at it. Spend quality time with her where you aren't having sex. This doesn't mean watching tv together, but sit down and really talk (and it doesn't have to be serious). Just remember that women love to talk about their problems. They want empathy and not necessarily solutions. Talk about her day with her. Give her a little back rub with no expectations (and in fact you should do it when there is no chance of having sex). You would be surprised how this can affect both your and her desire.
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