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Originally posted by taliendo
I say, take some time and really rest on your loss and sorrow, maybe for a couple of hours. Listen to the songs that make you think about all of the good times and really reflect about what a wonderful person you just spent the last couple of years with. Important: allow yourself to cry and even weep over your loss.
I've always found after that, I can not only put the past behind me, but it becomes a treasured memory for me. No matter how things went sour or how many bad times you've had, this helps me to focus on the great times and good memories of that person.
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This advice is the antithesis of my advice. I like mine more.