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I had a girlfriend for about 8 months and breaking with her wasn't hard emotionally, other than how she was taking it badly. It was easy to move on. The next girlfriend I really fell for and after 4 months when she declared the impossibility of her commitment to anything and shut me out of her life has been much harder on me. I'm still coping with it. I'm stuck between wanting to move on and thinking about how great everything was. One thing I do is write lots of poetry and try to really understand what it is that caused her to move away from me. Regardless of if it was really because of something you did wrong or because of her issues, once you isolate that, you can focus on it and work on improving yourself or on letting her go because it is just her problem. I kinda get the sense that it was a mutual break-up in some respects with you, so focus on the why it happened. As hard as it is for me to let go of all of those good things, understanding why it went wrong makes everything manageable.
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