I guess my question is if this is really about sex or about your feelings for her? Did you lose the spark in bed or in the relationship? You didn't once mention your feelings for her in your post. Maybe I am off base here, I don't know? But you can't expect to be having a good sexual relationship without a solid personal one. But if you do both really love each other, I wouldn't worry about it too much that will only complicate the problem. If you two talk about it in a loving realtionship it will work itself out!
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