Breakups are different for everyone-- it cannot be said often enough. However, in direct violation of my opening statement here are some gross generalizations
If the breakup was because one or the other of you wanted out and the other did not then she's either dating the main reason she wanted out or trying to make up for the fact that she did not want the relationship to end. If the former is true then you now know why she wanted to break up and should try to get back in the saddle knowing that it is over. If the latter is true, and you are the one who wanted to break it off, why are you still pining after her?
If the breakup was "Mutual" then she is doing what she should be doing -- moving on. You should too.
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