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Well, there's nothing wrong with being boring in the sack. It's taken several years for my wife to finally start to experiment. I bought her the Karma Sutra book, and that helped, plus I've gotten a few toys to try, just to help add to the experience. If you're not comfortable with that, then that's okay too. As far as wanting to be held, I've had phases like that, then phases where I don't want to be touched either.
I guess in a nut shell, my advice is to talk with your SO and let her know your feelings, maybe she has the same? Change is always hard at first, but if you want to change, do some homework first, and communicate!
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