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Shades · 11-17-2003, 10:01 PM

This has been bothering me for some time now, but I can't really seem to help the way I feel:

I am becoming boring in the sack. I'll do whatever she wants me to do, but if I have my druthers, I want to be on top or have her on top, and that's about it. The main things that I feel less comfortable with are

1) Blow Jobs. She's very good at them, but I don't want it to go all the way because it takes a while for me to "cycle around" and I enjoy being inside of her the most.

2) Doggy Style. I don't want to finish in this position. Every time I do, right after I have this kind of empty, lonely feeling. Laugh if you want, but I want to be held, and you really can't do that when your partner's butt is facing you.

I'll admit, I've been under a good deal of stress lately, but it's not like I've ever been Mr. Wild'n'Crazy. I'd appreciate any advice or pep talks you guys may have on how to deal with the feelings. I've talked to her about it, and she says it doesn't make me a loser or anything, and we still do those things, but I feel like I ought to be more proactive about it.

11-17-2003, 10:01 PM	#1 (permalink)
Shades Insane	I'm Becoming Boring, Help This has been bothering me for some time now, but I can't really seem to help the way I feel: I am becoming boring in the sack. I'll do whatever she wants me to do, but if I have my druthers, I want to be on top or have her on top, and that's about it. The main things that I feel less comfortable with are 1) Blow Jobs. She's very good at them, but I don't want it to go all the way because it takes a while for me to "cycle around" and I enjoy being inside of her the most. 2) Doggy Style. I don't want to finish in this position. Every time I do, right after I have this kind of empty, lonely feeling. Laugh if you want, but I want to be held, and you really can't do that when your partner's butt is facing you. I'll admit, I've been under a good deal of stress lately, but it's not like I've ever been Mr. Wild'n'Crazy. I'd appreciate any advice or pep talks you guys may have on how to deal with the feelings. I've talked to her about it, and she says it doesn't make me a loser or anything, and we still do those things, but I feel like I ought to be more proactive about it.