i know it's all romantic to say "ditch the job for the love of your life", but here's the simple fact....
- if you have a career, and you trash it for love, then when that love dies you'll have to live with that career setback for the rest of your life. oh - and how do i know it'll fail? anyone who forces you to choose between the two is selfishly manipulating you, and that is NOT a good indicator of true love.
- if you have a career, and you save it at the expense of the relationship, you'll have to live with that love life setback only until you find another girl, which you most likely will.
- if you don't have a career and don't mind moving, then you've got nothing to lose and a possible relationship to gain. CA has a horribly high standard of living, but it also has lots of opportunity.
whatever you do, good luck