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I'll never understand why we men are SO afraid to "show our cards". All this game-playing just makes me sick.
Do you like her? Would you like to ask her out? Are you interested in a relationship with her? Would you survive if that relationship was only on the level of friendship?
If so, here's what you do. Go up to her and say, "Listen, I really enjoyed talking to you and I'd like to get to know you better. Are you seeing anybody right now? Because I'd love to take you for a cup of coffee sometime." Put all those damn cards on the TABLE. NOTHING is as attractive as honesty.
This is a man who's been in an amazing, intimate, passionate relationship for 13 years speaking. However, if she's just an object of lust and you're only interested in what's in her pants, then take rainheart's advice.
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