Jerseyboy -
Try this. Next time you see her alone, say "I had a really good time talking to you last week. I was hoping you'd like to go out sometime. I was thinking we should get dinner/have coffee/take a walk sometime soon." This will should give her the picture pretty quickly. If she has a boyfriend, she'll tell you. I don't think you have much to lose. Just give it a shot. You won't waste half as much time. If she isn't interested in you, no skin off your back. She doesn't even know you yet. All you want to do is hang out with her (alone, of course). Not such a big deal.
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