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jerseyboy · 11-16-2003, 10:38 PM

Alright from my posts in the past you probably know I was obsessed with my best friend. Well luckily I am starting to get over her, and have had my eye on another girl. Unfortunately because I've been pining over the other girl for 3 years I dont have much experience with the ladies. Anyways here is my story:

So there is this girl in 2 of my classes who I have though it is really cute, although I really could never work up the courage to talk to her. Midway through the semester we would say hello to each other in passing outside of class, but that was the extent of our interaction. However last week there was a concert on campus, and both of us being on the concert board we working late to break down the stage. I took this opportunity to chat with her a little, but 2-3 other guys were also talking to her and she just seemed to be lapping up the attention so I really couldnt tell if she was interested in any of them, as she was kinda flirty with everyone.

Later in the week after class I was planning on talking to her, but I lost her in the rush leaving the classroom, so off I went to do errands. Luckily on one of my tasks I ran into her and we were both walking in the same direction so we walked together. The conversation was pleasant and light. Basically we just talked about where we were from, and I imparted some elderly advice upon her (she is a soph I am a senior and we have the same major). Unfortunately at the end of the conversation I was so pumped at having gotten some alone chit chat with her that I didnt even think of asking for her # or if she was seeing anyone.

So now of course I regret not doing this but I really want to find out if she is seeing anyone. Ideally I'd get some alone time with her like last friday, but that was just a stroke of luck. On a more realistic level I'd get 30 seconds with her. So should I just walk up and ask if she is seeing anyone, or is there a more smooth way of doing this. I have no problem talking to her, but when it comes to something like this I get really shy. Plus one of the other guys who I think is interested in her is in our class too, and she knows him a lot better than she knows me.

Alright this is getting kinda long, and not really going anywhere, so just give me any advice you can on how to not mess this up.

11-16-2003, 10:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
jerseyboy Insane	Finding out if she has a boyfriend Alright from my posts in the past you probably know I was obsessed with my best friend. Well luckily I am starting to get over her, and have had my eye on another girl. Unfortunately because I've been pining over the other girl for 3 years I dont have much experience with the ladies. Anyways here is my story: So there is this girl in 2 of my classes who I have though it is really cute, although I really could never work up the courage to talk to her. Midway through the semester we would say hello to each other in passing outside of class, but that was the extent of our interaction. However last week there was a concert on campus, and both of us being on the concert board we working late to break down the stage. I took this opportunity to chat with her a little, but 2-3 other guys were also talking to her and she just seemed to be lapping up the attention so I really couldnt tell if she was interested in any of them, as she was kinda flirty with everyone. Later in the week after class I was planning on talking to her, but I lost her in the rush leaving the classroom, so off I went to do errands. Luckily on one of my tasks I ran into her and we were both walking in the same direction so we walked together. The conversation was pleasant and light. Basically we just talked about where we were from, and I imparted some elderly advice upon her (she is a soph I am a senior and we have the same major). Unfortunately at the end of the conversation I was so pumped at having gotten some alone chit chat with her that I didnt even think of asking for her # or if she was seeing anyone. So now of course I regret not doing this but I really want to find out if she is seeing anyone. Ideally I'd get some alone time with her like last friday, but that was just a stroke of luck. On a more realistic level I'd get 30 seconds with her. So should I just walk up and ask if she is seeing anyone, or is there a more smooth way of doing this. I have no problem talking to her, but when it comes to something like this I get really shy. Plus one of the other guys who I think is interested in her is in our class too, and she knows him a lot better than she knows me. Alright this is getting kinda long, and not really going anywhere, so just give me any advice you can on how to not mess this up.