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I'll put it simply.
Sometime "love" is just a word.
Meaning there has to be substance behind it,
otherwise it is nothing but a gesture.
She sounds like she is very confused and has no idea what is real or not.
She is hanging on to anyone that will support her in that moment in time.
But there is no real followthrough for whatever she says.
My advice is take care of yourself in this moment.
Sometimes some are beyond your help, and some might even drag you down the black hole with them.
She is right in one thing though...sometimes even "love" isn't enough,
people also need to have enough personal responsibility to meet you halfway.
And even though there are people out there who are supporting those
who cannot support themselves (in all the different contexts implied),
these are people who have chosen to make significant sacrifices
and this is a need of their own.
This is your choice...but I do warn you...from what it sounds like
This woman will use you...and won't truly appreciate anything you do
or even return your efforts fairly.
These are the people we call, "users".
Beware.
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