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Originally posted by Minx
This is absolute bulls*** (sorry sixate). The man doesn't always get screwed. Believe it or not there are women out there (ahem...like myself) who don't take a single dime from the ex. He is an active part of their life and that is the only damn thing that really matters. What is important is what is best for the kids. People tend to forget that amongst their anger and greed and need to lash out during a seperation. I am fully able to raise my children by myself so I don't feel the need to take money from him just because I have the "right" too.
As far as the original idea of this post......if you are adult enough to get a girl pregnant then you had better be adult enough to at least want to have a part of their lives.
Actions - consequences. Seems pretty simple.
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I wish all women were like you because the other 98% are money hungry bitches that'll destroy a man's will to want to be a part of the child's life.
I don't have a problem with child support. I do have a problem when the man has to pay a mortgage, pay for a car, and still have alimony on top of the child support. How the hell is a man supposed to live? There's a simple answer... He doesn't. Why the fuck does the man have to pay so fucking much all the time when the woman doesn't work, but has the ability to do so?
There's one guy I work with who has 7 kids. He got divorced this year, and after all the money is taken out of his check each week he doesn't even bring home enough money in a month to pay my fucking car payment. That's fucking bullshit! His ex is a lazy fucking slut who cheated on him! The whore doesn't work. Never has and never will. I can rattle off at least another 15 dudes that I work with who get fucked like this. I find it funny that in situations like this women just can't seem to understand why a guy could care less. Why would he care when his life is ruined. It takes two to work through it. People shouldn't try to fuck over the other person as much as possible just because they no longer care for each other. As far as I'm concerned, in situations like I stated above it's just as much the women's fault as it is the man's that the guy could care less.