You don't know me from Adam, but.....
I think that you have be comfortable with yourself before you can drag someone else into your personal psychosis. (I'm not ragging on you in particular, just in general) You have to be comfortable in your own skin, stand on your own two feet, and learn how to face life in all in its incarnations before you can expect to drag someone else into your life. (If there are any cliches I've forgotten please let me know
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I don't know. Love is a powerful emotion and sometimes it's hard to see through the fog it levels on you. And although you may love this girl with the very depths of you heart, it might be better to step away for a while and get a clear interpretation of your relationship with this girl before you move it any further.
Good luck in whatever road you choose