My sister's ex is a deadbeat. He was pissed off because my sister left him for a woman and everything turned into a hassle. She had problems getting divorced from the guy because he fought over every stupid fucking little thing.
Now that they're divorced he supposed to be paying child support through the courts. He drops off or mails a check that gets there by a specific date every month and then the courts mail it to my sister.
He's about $1000 behind right now. If he doesn't give her at least 25% of the total amount her lawyer is going to have him arrested Monday and then he's going to file papers to have his wages garnished until the debt is paid.
Now that I've answered the original question to the best of my abilitities....
If you're stupid enough to stick your dick in the kind of woman who's going to do the things you guys mentioned in this thread then you should suffer your stupidity. You are a complicit party when it comes to having kids. Unless she has some way of obtaining your sperm without your knowledge and/or consent
And since you're a willing partner you should be just as responsible. I realize that situations change and people can be really vindictive, but I see example after example of vindictive women squeezing child support and alimony for all it's worth and I think to myself "They were vindictive bitches before you married them...how did you think this was going to turn out?"
My mother and father were divorced when I was 10 and although there was a lot of animosity, they were both grown up enough (well, mostly) to put their kids needs ahead of scoring points against each other.
whew...I gotta take a nap...
