Ummm.. I know you have strong feelings for her but how can you be sure you are in LOVE with her? Your only 18. I'm 19 and have dated people and never been in love with any of them. I had strong feelings for them but love is more than that. Also how can you love someone that isn't willing to love you back but dump you if her ex decides to get back together with her? That's wrong! The word love is misused constantly as this girl has done with you! She using you, to have around just in case nothing works out with her ex!
That's a shoddy way to treat someone especially you, since you have been so supportive of her. I'm girl and I have never ever done anything like this to a guy, it's too mean!
You deserve a better person to lose your virginity to and to fall in love with. This girl doesn't deserve you! Not the other way around. There are so many other ladies aren't there who won't treat you like this.
You need to be the one to stop talking to her and just ignore her, she's selfish and sounds like a bitch to me. She definately wouldn't be a friend of mine! She has no right to walk all over you!
Also as someone who has been through relationships, you will eventually stop thinking about her, takes about a year but you will stop having any feelings for her, I don't know how you could even justify liking her at all, with all the ex bf crap!
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