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Originally posted by Oopsfix
well if she doesnt want to initiate a conversation or whatever then why would i even bother?
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Because, due to the fucked up modern society that we live in, the burden is on
the man to initiate conversation, ask the lady out, etc. Most girls are too timid or "too proper" or were just taught
not to make the first move with guys they were interested in.
My girlfriend was interested in me
long before I knew she was interested in me, and it took her suitemates doing things like occupying every seat in the room aside from her bed to force me to be next to her, to stealing my shoes and stopping me from leaving, to get me to realize that "oh, hey, she wants to go out with me". Granted, I'm oblivious, but you can learn some lessons from that: Women, in probably 90 of every 100 cases,
will not initiate contact with a man that they are interested in.