Everytime you talk about your bf or bring him around, the first thing your father will think about is "this is the guy who had sex with my daughter."
This is normal and not surprising that this is your father's reaction. But he is being a bit unreasonable considering you are in college, and trying to forbid you from driving to see him. Best advice I can think of is to mimic iBone2. Do the best you can with your life, keep doing things that would make parents proud, but don't expect parents to be proud of a daughters relationship until he puts a ring on your finger.
It's a kind of father's instinct to be a bit stand-offish towards a daughter's relationship, especially if it's the one that resulted in you losing your virginity. It's not fair, but that's life.
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