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I have acid reflex too and have dealt with it for years by taking Prevacid. There are other wonderful drugs out there that work just as well -- even some over the counter now. So, deal with the obvious first and manage it. Other suggestions: elivate the head of your bed; stop eating at least 2 hours prior to going to bed; limit your alcohol intake; and exercise.
As for other issues, if there are any, I'd say go with the flow and accept the advance even if you don't feel "in the mood." Once things start to heat up, you may get into it more. At age 22/23 you may be having some guilt issues around enjoying sex (I don't know how you were raised -- just speaking from experience). Let go and enjoy! There is nothing wrong with a good, healthy sexual relationship. My personal difinition of healthy -- if it feels good and you both want it, go for it! Good luck!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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