3 to 4 times a week is actually pretty good. However, many times the issue is not physical it is emotional. Meet her emotional needs and oftentimes you will find her meeting your physical needs (which suprisingly have become her physical needs). What I mean by this is spend quality time with her where you aren't having sex. This doesn't mean watching tv together, but sit down and really talk (and it doesn't have to be serious). Just remember that women love to talk about their problems. They want empathy and not necessarily solutions. Talk about her day with her. Give her a little back rub with no expectations (and in fact you should do it when there is no chance of having sex).
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