I don't know what area you are from but try
www.lavalife.com.
It allows you to get on the site and view other people. You pay to contact those people.
Yes, there are alot of guys who harass the women. I think if you strongely word your profile to indicate that you are only looking for a women that will help reduce the crap.
There are real people on the site. As well as professionals. You can tell the professionals right away.