Aff is easier to deal with if you visit the chat rooms a good bit, and start to get to know some people. It doesn't take long to spot the jerks and the Bots in there... for the most part. After you've chatted in the room a bit, (don't just lurk) then you'll probably get invited to the party for that room / area. There are at least 2 per month in Texas, one in Austin or Houston, and one in the Dallas area. The people there have been an absolute hoot, and a good time is normally had by all.. That helps root the real people from the slime balls in there.
Yeah, there are a bunch of people (men mostly) who are just looking for a lay, and many of them are cheating spouses.. And God knows a single bi woman is the holy grail in there, so it's not likely to be easy. I personally think we've made as many good connections just in meeting people and becoming friends elsewhere, but we've met some gems online as well. Sign on as a female first, you can look at profiles (but not pics) and then as a couple, so you have an account you can look at stuff for free.
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