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Originally posted by motdakasha
Okay, to be honest, I'm downright appalled with the stereotyping that's going on.
All strippers come with problems? EVERYBODY comes with their own personal luggage.
All strippers do it for attention and not money? Bullshit.
Anyways, if this is the only thing she's comfortable with doing for work, and she's got a deadline to meet (before she leaves), then you're suffocating her. If you can't handle the fact that she strips and your friends might find out, then you're not mature enough for her anyway.
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Agreed on the first paragraph...she is really a very nice person and the money she makes does go to her family and her future--she saves what she can and does not buy expensive cars or whatever. In fact, she doesn't even have any expensive things.
On the second part, OUCH....but true. I definitely do not want to be holding her back or suffocating her. I do know that I am the one she comes home to and the one she has sex with, etc. I guess I am adolescent in feeling the way I do, but Im adult enough to admit what I feel--regardless of repurcussions.
That being said, I know now that most of what I have to deal with is me--how I feel, what I think. Everything has been said between my gf and I. Now comes the hard part.
In all honesty, I had a future lined up with this girl. Marriage, the house, the dog, the whole bit. One major issue I have to consider, too, is the "for better or for worse" part. She and I have gone through the "for worse" and this situation is the end result. I understand enough to know that there will be more "for worse's" as time goes by. A couple must deal with it. If this is how it will be dealt with, then I have strong reservations about the "forever" part of my plan.