While I would normally pick Love over Career.
In this case...I don't know too many things.
* What were the circumstances with her moving out there?
* It can't just "sound" like she wants you out there...there has to be some commitment.
* Just because it was good for your friend, doesn't mean it is for you.
* Are there any opportunities out there for you? (have you done any research?)
* Are you scared of a large commitment yourself?
You've got WAY too many open-ended questions here.
I'm not going to make my opinion known until you fill in the blanks.
I can't just offer life-altering advice like that without knowing more.
That would be selfish & inconsiderate of me.
Machoness doesn't not make a good advisor.
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